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[...] he seems? See Also: “Negs” you in his message. Jill clearly understands the dynamic of “Nice Guy Syndrome” as well as classic PUA techniques. To find an editorial like this is a strong [...]

[...] have him here. –Jason Jason has already gone into detail about why stereotypically “nice guy” behavior can turn women off.  If you didn’t read Jason’s post, I recommend [...]

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[...] around the neediness and anxiety of the “Nice Guy.” Jill is directly telling nice guys like us that women are seeing right through our behavior. I believe this level of cultural [...]

[...] this may be the most unattractive quality of many of the hopeless nice guys I meet.  They cede their personalities, their opinions, and, in turn, their self-respect for a [...]

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[...] many hopeless “nice guys” possess that Jason didn’t discuss is “nice guy victimhood.”  In fact, I think this may be the most unattractive quality of many of the hopeless [...]

Here’s a great example of what can go horribly wrong when otherwise “nice guys” use classic pick-up artist (PUA) tactics on a date. [...]